THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S WHICH EVERY GIRL RELATE TO

Best things  I learned in my early 20’S still have a fragrance in my mind. Lets we dive in the article to know about more  .

Most of the people say 20’s are the best time of your life, well I agree to it . It’s really the best time for loving yourself first , having fun and exploring new places new food , falling in love and experiencing heartbreaks , celebrating your small moments with your friends ,family . Uploading them on INSTAGRAM , FACEBOOK , TWITTER ETC .

When I stepped into my 20,s  My life was all about getting ready , going college , meeting friends , shopping , coffee , cafe , etc

But In our 20’s whether we show or not inside deep down  We are thinking about our career too !

HOW THINGS WILL REVOLVE ?

WHICH CAREER IS MORE GOOD FOR US ?

HOW WE GONNA MAKE IT?

And many more questions .

Even I asked myself all these questions ,

WHETHER I SHOULD DO BLOGGING OR NOT?

SHOULD I MAKE CAREER IN ANY OTHER THING TOO?

You know how human mind is …

So Finally I made somethings very clear in my mind and heart in my starting 20’s only as I can’t afford to waste my 20’s in just imagining whether I should do or not,

Things I learn in my early 20’s

THE First thing I explained myself and every girl should make herself do that ;

1 STOP GIVING FUCK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE |THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

Yes you heard it right , I said stop giving fuck about what people will say , what people are saying , how they will think or judge etc

They don’t know you , it’s not your duty to clean their mind.

Your duty is just to care and be answerable to those people who are your close one’s.

There are that hypocrite man , some jealous girls, tacky aunt’s etc who will not let you live if you listen them,

“You shouldn’t have to sacrifice who you are just because somebody has a problem with it”

Don’t forget to fall in love with yourself first.

ESSENTIALLY, we become more selective. About the Fucks we’re willing to give.

PERSONAL EXPIRENCE ; 

so what happen I used to be conscious about my looks, my love relationships most of the time , but last year I realised that if someone wish to like you , they will and your love relationships are your strength not your weakness so embrace it beautifully

Personally last year I start being open about my Realationship status and stop thinking about my looks much , people are impress by your over all personality , talent and confidence . Stop being judgmental about what people will think , say .

They will say whether you do or not!

2  MAKE YOUR CAREER FIRST PRIORITY AND YOUR FIRST LOVE | THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

Trust me on this , Your Career is only your identification and the thing you will be proud of.

I have seen many women’s compromising with their career and choices of career because of diff issues , Freedom my girls freedom it’s your life , decisions should be your only.

In this man eat man world I am not saying to always compete with others , compete with yourself , bring changes in you that people appreciate .

Its very hard outside to make a career many of us have to compete sometimes with some cheap stuff too,  but

THERE IS A SAYING “IF YOU DON’T EAT THE LION THE LION WILL EAT YOU”

None would help you if you are not financially secure no friend , no family one day , no children .

Make your career your first love and your first priority too !!

PERSONAL EXPIRENCE ;

This Is something I really wish to share so what happen since childhood I was very much into making my career not only for money but I wish to make myself a brand , but due to family pressure social pressure I pushed myself into studies more than a creative field , I choose commerce with maths though I was not at all good in maths , then afterwards B com honours. with company secretary , I was not happy with all these things much and didn’t got much success too , finally I switch to blogging and found my career and love too.

Even now also my friends my relative asked me what you doing exactly ,   you should do something further in studies or switch my career as they think blogging cannot be main career stream but I choose not to give them much importance and trust myself my choices and my love for it.

3  START ACCEPTING YOUR MISTAKE , APOLOGISE  | THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

Immature people are the one who never accept their mistake and never take charge of their actions.

No-one want to listen if , but , how , if you are wrong be a bigger person accept it apologise for it .

Make a sincere , heartfelt apology in personal as well as professional life too.

I m sure the other person will forgive you, no-one want to hold grudge for a long time , Don’t give them reason too.

Have courage to say SORRY and listen what they wish to say , make sure not to repeat again so that everyone moves on.

Life is too short to argue and fight realise what you are wrong about and promise yourself and other person not to repeat ,  people just want to listen that it will not happen again , TRUST ME.

PERSONAL EXPIRENCE ; 

I was one of those person who never accept my faults , always blame on others but when I saw people like me doing the same thing I used to do I get to know its so not good ethics to never accept your mistake , just say ‘sorry’ apologies are the best way .

Specially when we have bf / gf  or people we close with like our family we try to find each other mistakes , blame each other Its better we should realise what our mistake and say sorry first , trust me you ll. be better person after saying sorry .

4 TRAVEL ! TRAVEL ! TRAVEL ! INVEST ON TRAVEL | THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

In you’re early 20’s You don’t have so much responsibility so make the most of it that time .

Invest your money on travel , new hobbies , trying new sports , experience things you wish to experience .

Personally I wish to try BUNJEE JUMPING , SCUBA DIVING , TREKKING , SKIING , UNDERWATER DIVING ALL these activities .

I wish to go to several countries like GREECE, LONDON, BURA BURA ISLAND , FRANCE ETC

Today I can save all my money for all these thing rather than wasting much on materialistic things !

TRY SOLO TRAVELLING  – FOLLOW  YOUR DREAMS

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ;

2019 one of the goal is to TRAVEL ! TRAVEL ! TRAVEL !

Trust me this is the best medicine for all problems ; physical , mental , emotional everything .

Few months back I was very much disturbed due to some relationships issues was not able to get the answer of my confusion , then what I did. Is just booked my tickets for Kathmandu and it was my best decision I was so happy , so clear with my thoughts and my life .

This month also I m going somewhere will let you know soon on my Instagram  first  simranduseja_   and yes new travel blog will be their , GET READY FOR THAT TOO

5  SPEND ENOUGH TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY | THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

IN our early 20’s we in making our career , our relationship with our partner , friends .

Somewhere we neglect our family time with them , and afterwards when we get older we regret that why he hasn’t spend much time with our family ?

where were we ? what were we doing ? but its get too late ,

“FAMILY IS THE ONLY THING WE CAN’T EVER LEAVE NEITHER THEY WILL LEAVE US “

We can be angry with them , fight with them , leave them for a while , but always end up getting back to them.

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ;

FAMILY is the one who will stand by you even at you bad time and good times too.

When I was a teenage My mom used to stop me for many things which I haven’t listen that time , and I realised after sometime it was all true.

In my teenage I  ignore my family, because of friends and many more things but later I realised they are the one who were with me all the time , never judged me .

Now all the time when my family make some dinner plans or outing , I am the one who initiate first to come and cancel all my plans .

” BECAUSE FAMILY COME FIRST “

6  BE CONFIDENT ON ALL YOUR DECISION AND TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS | THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

OUR Early , 20’s  Its all about doing what we like  . Making my decisions  , whether its wrong or right learning from it and deciding  what to do further .

All your close one will not always support or agree with your decisions , but if you are confident then only trust your instincts , give your 100% this is the right time .

Everyone falls : Failing is time what success is built on, so embrace it and do not fear it.

in our early 20’s we feel very alone and insecure , we are failing at everything

Just remember one thing realise your potential and your goals, make goals for everyday , achieve the on daily basis !

And do everything you need to do it.

MAKE LOADS OF MISTAKES

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ; 

I used to be a very confused person , much influence by my people around , Few years later I realised I have lost myself somewhere back due to all absorbing all other vibes and I was not at all happy with my life and my career choices my relationship and the person  I was .

Slowly I start spending time with myself , and get into the process of knowing myself , start trusting my instincts , my decisions my future goals .

 7  TAKE THINGS LIGHTLY NOT EVERYTHING MATTER YOU IN NEXT FEW YEARS |THINGS I LEARNED IN MY  EARLY 20’S

The more you think about small  things , it takes all you energy on petty things ,

Try to focus on important things in life and in our 20’s

THINGS WE SHOULD FOCUS ON

• • OUR CAREER
  • OUR FAMILY
  • OUR CLOSE RELATIONSHIP
  • OUR PHYSICAL HEALTH
  • OUR INVESTMENT
  • OUR TRAVEL GOALS

IF you have any grudge just talk or blow it out

OR

IF something is not right , talk to your friends or family or sometimes a stranger as it will be a fair decision they don’t know you.

So they won’t judge you .

PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ;

I am the kind of person now who just be calm with all my emotions , our teenage is the time of zillions of emotions .

Later on we should make soughed  relationship  with our mind and heart.

Now I really don’t give much importance about all the views about me.

What you think about  your  own 20’s .Don’t forget to drop a comment.

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